The Week In Review.

[arontius]

.....It has been a somewhat hectic week. We're starting a major new Project at work and the number of details that have threatened to blow up has been staggering. Although that is not a complaint. The last time we started a major Project of this size I was working for The Big Boss who made life equivalent to about the seventh or eighth plane of hell. The current structure is a dream in comparison. So if things are a little rough and hectic, I am more than willing to take them in stride. And, of course, in about four week's time, when things are in full swing, the issues will calm down a degree and we can concentrate on getting things done.

.....After September though? I'm not entirely sure what is going to happen. My workload drops off considerably. There are multitudinous rumors floating around. I should probably poke around and make sure I have some sort of exit strategy.

.....Looks like a trip to Indiana sometime in June for another Battery Conference. This last week it was scheduled for the week immediately following June Faire. I think we might have been able to push it out at least a week. I'm crossing my fingers. Ouch. I could just imagine the fun of parking Lobelia on Sunday and getting up Monday for an early morning flight. :-)

.....This Tuesday at Fight Practice we saw The Rhys Monster in armor and in action. Lots of support from the fighting community. It was supremely cool to watch and I was excited for Rhys. Watching TBT was fun as well. She was so proud and excited, glowing like a 1,000 watt light bulb. :-) The Rhys Monster seemed to enjoy it as well, which bodes well for the future. I think it would be fantastic if he were to pick it up as a hobby he liked to do.

.....It certainly helped having all the comeraderie of the other fighters and all the attention and positive support and attention. He doesn't get a lot of that with spending so much time on the computer. So maybe this will also be an encouragement for him to get out more.

.....This was a little corner of my soul that was sad. I felt a little bit on the outside as I watched Rhys and wished again that Rhys were my son and not another's. As soon as I shine a spotlight on that feeling I know how silly it is. If Rhys were mine and TBT's, he wouldn't be Rhys. And Rhys is perfect the way he is. But, I can't help feeling every now and then that I'm missing out on something. It is a regret that I had to answer before I married TBT. But I still can't help but feel that regret from time to time. Oh, well, some things just can not be solved and you just learn to live with them.

.....I'm amazed some times how well TBT and I actually get along. The number of fights we've actually had since getting married is so low that it is hard to remember the last one whenever we have one. :-) But we are typical in one regard though. Packing! We both have a completely different style of packing and trying to pack together should be a non-starter! :-) This week has been a tough one though, so we ended up on Thursday night pulling the camping stuff from the garage. As we looked for various bits and made a pile of stuff to load into the truck, our different styles clashed. I had a few edgy words and had to clamp down on my tongue several times. I have a rather methodical system of putting stuff away and pulling it out again. TBT is much more free-form. But we managed to get it done with no yelling or screaming. Whoot!

.....Even made a trip to Lobelia. Part of me wished we could have just brought her along for the trip. But camping will be fun too. So we'll have fun. The truck is very nearly loaded. Just a few bins left to put into her. Gwen is supposed to be here around 8AM and then we're going to meet Madrun at the ferry. The Rhys Monster will be home for the weekend. It's never good to force him to another SCA event just before June Faire. :-)

.....Got my Pelican notes packed. My other notes packed. I have a couple of books. Baronial pavilion. Food. Actually, I'm tired of thinking of the list, so I'll stop now. :-)

.....Madrun's birthday tomorrow! It was a good day for all of us when she stepped into Dragon's Laire and our lives. Huzzah! :-)

.....May Crown! Here we come! :-)

.....Aaron / Arontius.

Comments

[ayeshadream.livejournal.com]

Yay for young adults finding hobbies, and espcially hobbys that help encourage more family time and socialization!

I'm super excited for the girlchild coming to both Boar's Hunt and June Faire this year- it's not just that I would love for her to love a hobby I enjoy, I think it's good for all of us to be away from the computers and television for a weekend. Unplugging means we interact more, and I think we pay more attention to each other and our surroundings.

I totally hear you on step-parenthood. I too am blessed with having an awesomely amazing child of my heart that completely incidentally isn't a child of my body. I don't think I could possibly love her more, but it is sometimes really _REALLY_ hard to be in that limbo of loving her so very much and knowing that I legally have no standing whatsoever when it comes to her. What hurts me most is when I see her being hurt by her mother's actions and words and can't do a damn thing about it. I worry that she'll grow up thinking that's how people treat one another. However, I've seen that without a single word of negativity against her mother we've been able to show her that not everyone behaves that way. She's starting to see that she can and should be treated with respect and love at all times, and be allowed to cry, speak her mind and generally be a kid without anyone freaking out on her. You're good for him, and while lots of people can be a be a parent biologically it takes a hell of a lot more to be a good dad, and it ultimately means a hell of a lot more too. You're the one who's there for the day to day bumps, illnesses, issues and tantrums. That makes you more a father than any biological contribution ever could. :)

I'm looking forward to seeing you both there- I just hope I get a chance to stop by and say hi. :)